Dear Jesus

Please guide me in navigating how to handle my dad/mom when he/she wants to do things I know are now unsafe for him/her to do. I understand it's hard for all of us to admit we are getting older, but I can't allow Dad/Mom to [drive, babysit, go on walks alone, etc.] because of [medical diagnosis, side effects of medication, or other health/mental struggles]. Help Dad/Mom to be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to become angry when I confront him/her on these issues.

Give me an abundance of discernment and wisdom to refrain from harsh words that stir up anger, and to answer my parent's questions with gentleness and clarity. Bring to my mind alternatives for my parent that will satisfy their needs while ensuring their safety. Protect my children while they are around their grandparent, and give them the courage to speak up if they see their grandpa/grandma doing something dangerous.

Lead Dad/Mom to trust in You, Lord, with all his/her heart and not lean on his/her own understanding concerning his/her current abilities. Remind my parent to acknowledge You at all times, making his/her path straight and right.

In the Name of Christ, Amen

~James 1:9, Proverbs 15:1, Proverbs 3:5-6